by Sasha Riess | 09.02.26. | Behaviour
The moment you start asking yourself why your dog seems restless, sad, or anxious, remember one thing: A dog would never do what we do to ourselves every single day. This is exactly why a dog so clearly feels every inner lie, every fracture, and every self-betrayal.
A Dog Feels Your Energetic Signature
To a dog, everything matters. They don’t hear your words; they feel the energetic signature of your decisions. They watch you as you:
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Go to a job you hate.
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Stay in a marriage where there is no love, only habit or fear.
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Attend social events with people you dislike, wearing a mask of politeness.
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Sacrifice your peace just to „show respect“ or maintain appearances.
The dog sees all of it. Reads all of it. Feels all of it.
Animals Live in Harmony; Humans Live in Conflict
No animal in nature would ever live against itself. A dog would never:
An animal lives in harmony with its own being. A human, however, often lives in a constant state of internal conflict.
A dog does not hear your words; it feels the energy of your decisions.
Your Dog Feels Your Inner Dishonesty
When you finally turn toward your own life and ask:
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How honest am I with myself?
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How honest am I with those I love?
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Who am I pretending to be?
You will realize that the greatest suffering doesn’t come from the outside, but from the betrayal of your own truth. Your dog suffers with you not because you are „bad,“ but because the dog sees what you are trying to hide.
A mask can deceive people, and makeup can hide a sleepless night—but a dog can never be deceived.
This profound connection between human integrity and canine well-being is the foundation of our work. At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach you how to achieve the systemic balance that allows both you and your dog to live authentically and healthily.
by Sasha Riess | 08.02.26. | Behaviour
Can training be traumatic for dogs? The answer is yes. Training becomes traumatic not only when physical force is used, but also when a dog is punished through reward withdrawal, pressure, or manipulation.
Any method that uses fear, pain, or a loss of safety creates long-term behavioral change through trauma, not through understanding. When force produces a “result,” it is only by pushing the dog’s body into a state of shock—the brain registers danger, and the dog adapts out of fear.
What Falls Under Traumatic Dog Training?
Trauma is not just about physical hitting. It is created through various forms of pressure where the dog loses its sense of safety:
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Pulling the leash and choking.
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Using slip collars and prong collars.
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Electronic shock collars.
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Withholding rewards when the dog “fails to perform.”
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Any situation where the dog loses the power of choice.
Both physical punishment and reward withdrawal affect the dog’s nervous system in the same way: as a total loss of control.
Why Does Trauma Appear “Effective”?
Trauma works quickly because the body remembers. The dog stops the “undesired” behavior not because it learned a better way, but because it learned what must not be done to survive. This is adaptation to fear, not true learning.
Trauma creates adaptation to fear, not true understanding.
The Consequences of Fear-Based Training
Methods that rely on shock or coercion create a dog that:
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Constantly assesses danger instead of relaxing.
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Reacts from a state of chronic tension.
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Lacks a stable, trusting relationship with the owner.
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Loses the ability to make independent, calm decisions.
Structure Without Coercion: The Alternative
Avoiding traumatic training does not mean a lack of structure or rules. On the contrary, a dog needs a clear framework—but one built without threat or pain.
Stable behavior does not come from shock; it comes from safety, consistency, and understanding the language of dogs. If we want a reliable companion, we must stop using methods that function only because they produce fear.
This understanding of a dog’s emotional state is at the heart of everything we do. At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach people how to apply these principles of safety and care, helping create calm, healthy, and happy results without trauma.
by Sasha Riess | 08.02.26. | Emotions
There is an ancient teaching that says meeting a black or white dog is a sign of respect. This isn’t because these dogs are biologically different, but because dogs as a species have always been closest to humans. This is where a topic begins that is rarely spoken about openly: Black Dog Syndrome.
What Is Black Dog Syndrome?
Black Dog Syndrome is a term used worldwide to describe a heartbreaking phenomenon: black dogs are adopted less often, end up in shelters more frequently, and are more easily abandoned or euthanized.
A black dog is often the first to be left on the street and the hardest to find a home for. This has nothing to do with the dog’s character; it is entirely about human projections, fears, and the symbolism we attach to color.
Black and White: Same Essence, Different Perception
In nature, black and white have equal value. A dog does not know whether it is black or white; it only knows whether it belongs or does not belong.
A dog does not know its color – it only knows whether it belongs.
The problem begins with human perception:
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Viewing black dogs as „more dangerous.“
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Believing they are harder to train.
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Considering them „less photogenic.“
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Projecting personal fears onto the color of their coat.
The Responsibility of Those Who Choose Black Dogs
Caring for a black dog carries a greater responsibility. Not because the dog is problematic, but because society’s attitude toward them is. Choosing a black dog is a conscious decision not to participate in collective rejection.
The Dog as a Mirror of Humanity
There is no animal that has suffered so much because of humans, nor one that has given us such unconditional closeness. The way we choose dogs says more about us than it does about them.
Every dog, regardless of color, seeks the same things: belonging, safety, and peace. A black dog is not a symbol of darkness; it is often a victim of the human fear of our own reflection.
This understanding of a dog’s emotional and physical state is at the heart of everything we do. At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach people how to apply these principles of stability and care in their everyday lives with their dogs, helping create calm, healthy, and happy results.
by Sasha Riess | 08.02.26. | Nutrition
Determining a dog’s ideal weight is essential for health and longevity. A dog’s ideal weight does not depend only on breed, but on body proportions and the amount of body fat. Too much or too little fat can lead to serious health problems, which is why it is important for owners to know how to assess their dog’s condition.
How to Check Body Fat in a Dog
The most reliable way to assess your dog is through touch and observation.
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Overweight: Observe the area around the ribs. If the fat layer is so thick that the ribs cannot be felt at all, the dog is overweight. Note that fat tissue does not always feel soft; it can also feel quite firm.
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Underweight: If the skin between the ribs is very loose and the ribs are clearly visible or strongly felt with no padding, the dog is underweight.
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Ideal Weight: The ideal weight is reached when the ribs can be gently felt or slightly seen, with a thin, healthy layer of fat between the skin and the ribs.
What Does Not Determine a Dog’s Ideal Weight
It is important to note that a dog’s height or breed alone does not define ideal weight. The key factor is muscle mass, especially in the rib area, because muscle makes up most of the dog’s body mass. A muscular dog may weigh more on the scale but still be at an ideal body condition.
The ideal weight is when the ribs can be gently felt under a thin layer of fat.
How to Assess Your Dog at Home (Step-by-Step)
You can perform this simple check-up regularly to monitor your dog’s health:
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The Rib Test: Gently feel the ribs with light pressure of your hand. You should feel them like the back of your hand—not prominent like knuckles, but not hidden like the palm.
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The Profile View: Observe the dog’s waistline from the side. There should be a slight „tuck“ behind the ribs.
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The Overhead View: Look at your dog from above. You should see a clear waistline behind the ribs, creating an hourglass figure.
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Estimate Fat Thickness: Assess the thickness of fat specifically between the skin and ribs.
This simple check can help you determine whether your dog is underweight, at an ideal weight, or overweight.
This understanding of a dog’s emotional and physical state is at the heart of everything we do. At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach people how to apply these principles of stability and care in their everyday lives with their dogs, helping create calm, healthy, and happy results.
by Sasha Riess | 06.02.26. | Emotions
Marija’s decision to leave a toxic job seemingly stopped her dog’s years-long agony in a single day. What if pet illness is hidden in our habits, fears, and unspoken truths?
How Pet Illness Begins Quietly
Some stories begin softly, without grand drama. On the table lie veterinary instructions, receipts, and dietary plans—everything that should solve the problem. And yet, the dog’s body repeats the same symptom, again and again, for years.
Marija worked in retail. A stable job, but inside, stress accumulated daily. Constant suppression of personal boundaries slowly dissolved her spirit. At the same time, her dog Jacky, a small mixed-breed rescue, suffered from chronic diarrhea. Not for a week, but for years.
In veterinary terms, such cases are often labeled idiopathic. A cause exists but cannot be clearly defined. In practice, this means treating effects without reaching the root.
What If Pet Illness Is Not Only a Medical Problem?
What if the problem is not in the dog? Marija began to observe herself. She noticed a pattern: every weekend without work, Jacky’s symptoms eased. Every time she returned home after workplace conflict, his condition worsened.
Dogs detect changes in human heart rhythm, stress hormones, and micro-shifts in breath. If they can sense an epileptic seizure before it happens, why would it be impossible for them to register emotional states their owners never express verbally?
The Systemic Burden
In systemic models, harmony requires each being to carry its own burden. When a dog takes on the emotional load of the owner, the natural order is disturbed. The result is imbalance, often expressed through chronic illness or behavioral symptoms.
Balance is not a fixed state, but a relationship between human and dog.
When the Human State Changes, the Dog Responds
When Marija finally resigned, she felt an immediate relief. Her breath deepened; her stomach relaxed. That night, Jacky had no diarrhea. Nor the next day. After years, the symptom stopped the day the human environment changed.
Science has no clear explanation for this yet, as it sits between disciplines—too holistic for classical veterinary medicine, yet too physical for psychology. But the evidence remains.
Where Illness Ends and Truth Begins
Humans and dogs are not parallel lives; they are one system. If the dominant signal is fear, the system vibrates in fear. If the signal is calm, the system finds its rhythm.
The question remains: Are we willing to change what hurts us, before our dogs carry it for us?
This understanding of a dog’s emotional and physical state is at the heart of everything we do. At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach people how to apply these principles of stability and care in their everyday lives with their dogs, helping create calm, healthy, and happy results.
