by Sasha Riess | 28.08.26. | Behaviour
To understand and connect deeply with our companions, we must return to the roots and rediscover an authentic, natural relationship with a dog. Through this process, we do not simply learn how to raise an animal. Simultaneously, we learn profound lessons about ourselves. Setting clear and healthy boundaries creates the strong foundation that helps us build stable, balanced, and meaningful relationships with both animals and people.
How Freedom Shapes an Authentic Relationship With Your Dog
As I often told Heni while we walked along the beach: “Let him go. I call him, he does not come, so I simply turn around and walk away.” I often recorded those precise moments. If you truly believe there is a better place for you somewhere else, then go freely.
Yet it is precisely from that absolute freedom that an unbreakable connection emerges. When a living being experiences genuine freedom, it consciously chooses to remain beside you, or beside anyone with whom it wishes to build a bond. Consequently, in the end, freedom becomes one of the most powerful forces of connection when shaping a healthy relationship with a dog.
Trust That Goes Beyond the Need for Control
Many owners unintentionally limit their companions through excessive control and constant physical tension, believing this behavior will keep the dog close to them. However, a stable and natural relationship with a dog can never rely upon the fear of loss.
Only when you consciously let go of that constant need for control will you begin to notice something remarkable. The dog starts choosing to follow your steps voluntarily because it recognizes a calm, stable, and trustworthy leader in you.
Love That Grows Without Cages or Restrictions
When both partners build their dynamic on mutual trust, the dog has no desire to lose the freedom it experiences beside you. The dog does not know whether another place would offer the same emotional freedom or confine it behind harsh restrictions.
The same universal principle applies to love, human relationships, and many other aspects of daily life. True connection does not grow from tightening the leash out of deep-seated fear. Ultimately, a natural relationship with a dog thrives most beautifully when you build it at the highest level of mutual freedom.
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by Sasha Riess | 27.08.26. | Behaviour
When behavioral problems arise in the home, owners often find themselves in serious conflict with their surroundings. Sudden aggression in dogs toward people or other animals can create enormous stress, confusion, and daily anxiety. However, the root of the problem often lies in one important dynamic: a dog may begin displaying defensive or aggressive behavior when it feels responsible for managing situations that it does not feel equipped to handle. In those overwhelming moments, the dog attempts to take control of circumstances because it does not perceive enough stability or guidance within its environment.
An Imaginary Scenario: The Flight Attendant in the Cockpit
To better understand this complex behavioral dynamic, Sasha often uses a powerful aviation metaphor.
Imagine you are on an airplane when suddenly the pilot loses consciousness. The co-pilot is also unable to fly the aircraft, so the plane switches to autopilot. Moments later, a flight attendant rushes into the cabin, walks directly to you, and informs you that you must now fly the airplane. Panic immediately takes over your mind. You have absolutely no knowledge of aviation, you do not know what the complex controls mean, and you do not know how to land the aircraft safely. And yet, suddenly, the ultimate responsibility falls entirely on you.
When Fear Becomes an Overwhelming Responsibility
At first, you fear for your own life. But very quickly, your attention shifts to the hundreds of passengers who now depend entirely on your choices. You know that you remain completely unprepared for the heavy responsibility placed upon your shoulders. Stress rises rapidly, anxiety intensifies, and every decision feels completely impossible.
According to this metaphor, many canine companions experience a similar emotional burden when dealing with aggression in dogs. They display intense reactive behavior simply because they feel responsible for handling situations they do not fully understand. Consequently, they carry immense environmental pressure they were never meant to carry in the first place.
THE AIRPLANE METAPHOR: RETURNING STABILITY AND CONTROL TO THE COCKPIT.
Returning the Pilot to the Cockpit
From this holistic perspective, aggression in dogs does not stems from dominance or an inherent desire to harm. Instead, it emerges when the dog feels completely overwhelmed by responsibility, uncertainty, or a severe lack of clear guidance. The nervous system eventually reaches a critical breaking point, and defensive reactions begin to appear.
Therefore, the solution does not involve force, harsh punishment, or direct physical confrontation. The true goal requires creating an environment in which the dog no longer feels responsible for controlling every situation around them. When guardians restore stability, consistency, and trust, the dog can gradually release that heavy emotional burden. In other words, the pilot successfully returns to the cockpit.
Ultimately, the dog becomes free to be a calm, balanced dog again.
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by Sasha Riess | 25.08.26. | Behaviour
When challenges arise in households where children and dogs grow up together, owners often unconsciously place too much responsibility on their dogs. However, we must clarify one thing immediately: a dog cannot and should not be a parent. A dog neither holds that role nor possesses the capacity to replace human authority. Nevertheless, what a dog actually does, and the unique way it connects with children, represents a natural phenomenon that many adults fail to fully understand.
How Children and Dogs Communicate Through the Laws of Nature
What children often recognize far more quickly than adults is the subtle dynamic of behavior. Intelligent children and dogs frequently find a common language without pressure, force, or manipulation.
A dog instinctively recognizes how a child approaches situations and adapts accordingly, often guiding interactions toward a positive outcome in a completely natural way. Consequently, this reflects a characteristic of wise beings: reaching the desired result while making it appear as though the other side arrived at the conclusion independently.
The Wisdom Hidden Within Natural Connection
This unique form of communication reflects principles that remain strongly present in young minds. Fortunately, young children have not yet become fully shaped by all the influences, pressures, and distractions of the modern world.
When it comes to children and dogs, childhood often preserves a certain original purity. A dog can help a child discover their own abilities and develop in harmony with themselves. Therefore, as conscious parents, our role does not involve interfering with that process unnecessarily; instead, we must support it. When we stop resisting natural principles, we create a far more harmonious environment for the entire family.
A Lesson About Achieving Results Without Conflict
Do you remember the scene from the film My Big Fat Greek Wedding in which the family encourages the young woman to move from working in the family restaurant to a new position involving computers? The strategy was not built on force, pressure, or direct conflict. Instead, the people around her carefully created circumstances that allowed the idea to emerge naturally.
THE WISDOM HIDDEN WITHIN NATURAL CONNECTION.
In a similar way, children and dogs often learn how to navigate the world and achieve desired outcomes without direct confrontation, coercion, or the imposition of will. Ultimately, this may represent one of the healthiest foundations for developing emotional intelligence, understanding boundaries, and learning how wisdom and love can work together.
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by Sasha Riess | 23.08.26. | Behaviour
Every owner dreams of calm and enjoyable walks with their dog. Yet for many people, daily walks bring frustration simply because the dog constantly pulls on the leash, barks at passersby, or reacts intensely to everything happening around them. A similar challenge often appears when introducing a dog to a cat or helping it remain calm around other animals. According to this perspective, dogs often behave this way because they feel responsible for managing what is happening around them. For that reason, solving the problem requires a very different approach from the one most people expect.
Stop the Walks Until You Become the Center of Your Dog’s World
To create lasting change, guardians must return to the very beginning. Therefore, avoid repeatedly placing the dog into overwhelming situations where it continually loses self-control.
Instead, spend quality time working in a completely calm and controlled environment until new habits begin to develop naturally. The ultimate goal involves becoming the primary point of focus for your companion. When the relationship grows stronger, your presence becomes far more valuable than everything happening around you.
You Are the Reward, Not the Cheese or the Toy
When building authentic communication, guardians should not always focus on external rewards. The objective does not rely on treats, toys, or temporary physical distractions.
Instead, the deeper goal requires becoming the most meaningful source of guidance, safety, and connection in your dog’s daily life. Your dog should enjoy being with you not only because of what you provide, but because of the relationship itself. Consequently, when a dog pulls on the leash, addressing the core dynamic matters far more than managing symptoms, as relationships lie at the center of how dogs experience the world.
BECOMING THE CENTER OF YOUR DOG’S WORLD CREATES NATURAL HARMONY.
Leading Your Dog Begins With Leading Yourself
Dogs naturally seek internal stability and clear direction. They often thrive when they feel that someone else calmly guides the entire situation. However, that process requires us to become leaders of our own lives first.
For many people, this shift represents the most difficult part of the journey. It is often easier to focus on changing the dog than to look inward and examine our own habits, emotions, and consistency. Yet when we take full responsibility for our own calmness and stability, many behavioral challenges begin to transform naturally. Ultimately, the leash becomes lighter simply because the relationship has become stronger.
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by Sasha Riess | 19.08.26. | Behaviour
Why Your Dog Doesn’t Respond to What You Say and How Relationships Are Really Built
In previous columns, we explored vision and one fundamental principle: dogs do not react to the world they see, they react to the meaning their nervous system assigns to what they see. The eyes are simply gateways through which information reaches the brain. Only inside the brain does perception emerge, creating the internal reality that guides every decision an organism makes. Consequently, this explains why two dogs can witness the exact same event and respond in completely different ways. The scene itself has not changed. Only the meaning assigned to it by each dog’s nervous system has changed.
A World of Frequencies: How Dogs Hear Emotions Instead of Words
The next sense that shapes this internal reality is hearing. Just as with vision, however, hearing has surprisingly little to do with the ears themselves. The ears represent mechanical structures that collect sound waves from the environment. Only after those sound waves reach the brain does sound acquire true meaning. Perhaps the greatest misconception people have about dogs involves believing that dogs primarily listen to our spoken words.
In reality, dogs rarely respond to words themselves. Instead, they respond to the experiences their nervous system has associated with those specific sounds. From a physiological perspective, dogs live in an acoustic world that humans can barely imagine. While the average human hears frequencies up to approximately 20,000 Hz, dogs can detect sounds exceeding 60,000 Hz. Their highly mobile ears function like directional antennas, constantly locating the source of sound with remarkable precision.
Therefore, this means dogs do not simply hear more sounds than we do, they also perceive far more subtle variations within every sound. While people often hear only the spoken voice, dogs simultaneously detect changes in tone, rhythm, intensity, breathing patterns, muscle tension around the neck, and even subtle changes in vocal resonance that reflect a person’s emotional state.
This remarkable ability evolved over thousands of years. In nature, sound often served as the earliest warning that something important was happening. The rustling of grass could signal approaching prey, or an approaching predator. A single snapping branch could mean the difference between survival and death. Evolution did not shape hearing so animals could enjoy music or conversation. It shaped hearing as an early warning system. Although dogs no longer live in the environment for which that nervous system evolved, they still carry the very same biological machinery today.
Lost in the Noise of the Modern World
Modern civilization has completely transformed the acoustic environment in which dogs live. For most of the shared history between humans and dogs, the soundscape was relatively simple. Wind, rain, birds, other dogs, people, flowing water, thunderstorms, and occasional wildlife made up nearly the entire acoustic world.
Today, dogs live surrounded by televisions, mobile phones, alarms, microwave ovens, air conditioners, vacuum cleaners, traffic, sirens, elevators, electronic devices, and the constant noise of modern cities. Their nervous systems never evolved to process such an enormous volume of sound. Yet every single day, they attempt to interpret it all. This brings us directly to one of the brain’s most important biological characteristics.
The brain cannot afford the enormous energy cost of treating every sound as entirely new information. Instead, it constantly searches for recognizable patterns. Every new sound compares automatically with previous experiences. In other words, the brain does not simply hear sound. The brain hears memory.
Associative learning represents one of the most important survival mechanisms in neurobiology. When a particular sound repeatedly occurs alongside a particular experience, neural connections gradually form between them. Consequently, the sound is no longer just a sound. It becomes a direct prediction. A bell may predict food. The sound of a leash may predict a walk. The sound of a car may predict the owner’s arrival.
The very same mechanism also works in the opposite direction. A sound can become associated with punishment, discomfort, fear, or frustration. The nervous system does not distinguish between positive and negative experiences. It simply learns the connections between them.
When a Dog’s Name Becomes a Source of Emotional Conflict
This realization completely changed the way I began thinking about why dogs stop trusting their own name over time. For humans, a name represents identity. For dogs, a name is simply a sound. Yet it may also be the single most frequently repeated sound they hear throughout their entire lives. An owner may say their dog’s name thousands of times each year—and tens of thousands of times over an entire lifetime.
The problem begins when the very same sound carries completely different, and often contradictory, emotional meanings. We use the dog’s name to wake them. We use it during play. We use it to scold them. We use it to invite affection. We use it to warn them. We use it to praise them.
Humans naturally understand context. We know that the same word can carry different meanings depending on the situation. However, dogs do not process language in this way. Their nervous system primarily registers the emotional value attached to the sound. When the same sound repeatedly pairs with conflicting emotional experiences, it gradually becomes less predictable, and therefore less useful as a reliable signal. Consequently, this explains why dogs stop trusting their own name when mixed signals create chronic internal confusion.
DOGS LISTEN TO THE EMOTIONAL HISTORY ATTACHED TO EVERY SOUND WE MAKE.
When Confusion Replaces Connection
When a dog’s name becomes a source of emotional conflict, the relationship itself often begins to weaken. Over the years, I noticed a pattern that at first seemed like pure coincidence. In dogs that had developed severely disorganized emotional relationships with their owners, changing the dog’s name often marked the beginning of surprisingly rapid behavioral improvement.
The new name was not magical. It did not change the dog’s personality. It did not alter genetics. It simply interrupted the history attached to one particular sound. The new sound carried none of the thousands of previous frustrations, contradictions, disappointments, or emotional conflicts. For the first time, the nervous system had the opportunity to build a completely new association between one sound and one consistent meaning.
The new name became predictable. It predicted safety. Connection. Cooperation. Positive interaction. Within that predictability, many dogs appeared to discover an emotional stability they had previously lacked.
Perhaps our greatest mistake is not that we fail to teach dogs enough. Perhaps it is that we rarely consider what their nervous systems are learning from us every single day. Every word we speak. Every tone of voice. Every shift in intonation. Every emotion carried within our voice leaves a trace inside the brain. For humans, speech is a way of expressing thoughts.
For dogs, sound is a way of predicting the future. When a sound becomes consistent and predictable, the nervous system finds safety. When the same sound repeatedly carries contradictory meanings, the organism loses its ability to predict what comes next. That is when confusion emerges. And confusion represents one of the greatest enemies of homeostasis.
Perhaps the next time you say your dog’s name, the most important question is not whether your dog heard you. The more important question is: What has your dog’s nervous system learned that this sound means? Dogs do not simply listen to the words we speak. They listen to the history attached to every sound we have built together over the years.
Within that history grow trust, security, and connection. But within that same history can also grow fear, uncertainty, and emotional disorganization. Ultimately, once we understand that sound is never just sound, but an experience remembered by the brain, understanding why dogs stop trusting their own name becomes much clearer, showing how changing a single word can sometimes transform an entire world for a dog.
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by Sasha Riess | 17.08.26. | Behaviour
In the modern world, we constantly hear theories about dominance and the owner acting as the primary pack leader dog authority. However, the true psychology of animals reveals a completely different picture. In many cases, fear and insecurity in dogs arise not because they lack domination, but because owners do not fully understand their fundamental emotional needs.
Dogs are not searching for someone who simply commands and controls them. Above all, they seek safety, stability, and a deep sense of genuine connection. Their natural instinct drives them to find security within the family unit and within the relationships that make them feel protected.
Why Does Your Dog Cry and Howl When You Leave?
Imagine a situation in which your dog begins barking, whining, or howling the moment you walk out the door. Many self-proclaimed experts may tell you that the dog acts stubborn or that you fail to display enough control as a dominant pack leader dog figure. However, the explanation remains far simpler and more human. In that moment, the dog experiences severe distress because something important leaves its world.
Consequently, the feeling of security disappears, and overwhelming uncertainty takes its place. As a result, anxiety and panic begin to emerge within the dog’s nervous system.
They Are Not Only Afraid of Being Alone
When a dog cries at the door, society often interprets the sound as disobedience, manipulation, or spoiled behavior. Yet many dogs react to something far deeper. They are not simply responding to physical separation; they respond directly to the loss of connection, predictability, and emotional security.
Dogs remain highly sensitive to changes in human emotions, daily routines, body language, and immediate energy. Consequently, when they perceive subtle instability in their environment, uncertainty grows inside their own nervous system as well. They do not need a forceful pack leader dog to discipline them in these moments; they need a reliable source of grounding and reassurance.
THE DOG AS A REFLECTION OF OUR INNER PEACE.
Dogs and Children See Beyond Our Masks
Learning to care for our own emotional wellbeing represents one of the most powerful ways to help the animals sharing our lives. Dogs and young children often respond less to the social roles we play and more to the true emotional state beneath them. They react to consistency, authenticity, calmness, and quiet presence.
For this reason, lasting behavioral change rarely comes from force, mechanical control, or dominance alone. True progress grows from mutual trust. It grows from authentic connection. Ultimately, it grows from the profound sense of safety we create together. Perhaps true leadership does not require fear or control. Ultimately, true leadership means becoming a permanent source of peace.
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