I used to be fully in favor of sterilization and castration in dogs—but now I ask myself: is it truly care, or fear? This isn’t just about dogs—it’s about us, and about how deeply we respect life within the human dog relationship.
My Journey: From Advocate to Questioning
When I first heard about mass sterilization and castration programs, I was convinced it was the right path. I believed it was a humane act, a responsibility toward society, a way to reduce animal suffering. I was a loud advocate—waving the flag of the “greater good.”
But today, after years of reflection, dialogue, and personal growth, I ask myself: Was it really for the dogs’ sake, or was it my own need to control something I didn’t understand—neither in them, nor in myself?
The physiological and emotional consequences of sterilization and castration
What does sterilization really do to dogs? More and more research shows these are not “simple surgeries.” When we remove a dog’s sex hormones, we don’t just eliminate reproduction—we disrupt a hormonal axis that shapes behavior, emotional stability, bone health, muscles, and the immune system.
And yet, it’s often done without deeper awareness. Is it really for them, or simply easier for us? It’s easier to live with a dog whose emotions are dulled, whose instincts don’t challenge us, whose energy doesn’t disturb our comfort. But have we truly made that dog a “better companion,” or have we turned him into something nature never intended?
The Pressure Behind a “Personal Decision”
Sterilization and castration are deeply intimate decisions—choices that permanently alter a dog’s life. They require awareness and responsibility, not slogans, pressure, or collective campaigns. It’s not a matter of activism—it’s a matter of conscience.
Understanding activism between care and sterilization and castration control
I was part of that wave. I loudly supported sterilization, believing it would solve the problem of strays and suffering. But over time, I realized that much of that activism comes from something deeper—not just care, but an unconscious urge to control, to “fix” what may not even be broken.
In the human dog relationship, this aggressive, often unknowingly violent call for sterilization and castration isn’t always rooted in understanding—but in an inner restlessness that drives us to “correct” the world, perhaps because we don’t know how to heal ourselves.
Hidden Patterns Behind the Passion
Through years of work with people, I began to notice repeating emotional patterns behind this zeal:
Some try to impose order over the chaos they grew up in.
Some were taught that love must be earned through “proper behavior,” and use sterilization as a way to prove their value to society.
Some unconsciously punish—themselves, others, even animals—out of unhealed pain.
Some carry generational trauma, fear of life, or unwanted parenthood—and project that fear onto dogs, denying them reproduction.
Some who were abandoned project their sorrow onto abandoned dogs, trying to save them to heal their own wounds.
And some are so disconnected from nature and their own bodies that they attempt to “civilize” life itself—where natural rhythm should simply be allowed.
A Ritual of Control, Not Love
These patterns made me question everything I once believed. I came to see that sterilization and castration, in many cases, are not acts of care but rituals of control—born of fear, not love. What we often call “social responsibility” can easily become institutionalized detachment from life itself. When society enforces sterilization as a universal solution, it doesn’t create order—it quietly teaches denial of instinct, vitality, and natural identity.
The larger picture of sterilization and castration and our relationship with life
This isn’t just about dogs—it’s about us. It’s about how we treat what we don’t understand, what we try to dominate instead of honor. I believed I was protecting dogs, fighting for a noble cause. But in truth, it was easier to fight for something “righteous” than to face the questions within myself. Activism gave me purpose, justification, identity.
From Inner Conflict to Inner Peace
Over time—through silence, reflection, and deep inner work—I began to change. I discovered a frightened part of myself, one that sought safety in control and conviction. That part didn’t just want to control dogs—it wanted to control the world, as a shield against inner chaos. Once I recognized that, I began to truly listen. I started to meet dogs—not as projects to “fix,” but as beings with needs, rhythm, and dignity.
Impulse vs. Calling
Then I understood the difference. Impulse comes from unrest—from the need to calm one’s own insecurity. Calling arises from peace—it listens, connects, and unites. Impulse shouts for validation. Calling whispers—it builds bridges. That awareness changed everything: how I see dogs, people, and myself.
In every dog’s run through nature, there is a pure joy of existence—a freedom that reminds us what it means to truly live.
Awareness and Education — The Real Path to Change
Sterilization will not stop violence or abandonment—it never truly has. But awareness can. Real, personal, heart-centered awareness transforms everything—because it transforms us.
So perhaps we should pause and ask: What drives us to take away from others what we haven’t yet learned to embrace in ourselves? Maybe, by denying dogs their natural wholeness, we mirror our own loss—the disconnection from what it means to truly live.
To Live Means to Feel
As long as we don’t see this, we’ll repeat the same patterns—unaware, unawake. To walk, breathe, and eat isn’t to live. To live means to feel, to choose, to have a voice. Just as a human who has learned only to endure forgets how to return to themselves, so does a dog, once stripped of its essence, lose the fullness of life.
A Call to Honor Life
So—let’s protect life. In ourselves. In dogs. In others.
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Dogs share similar DNA with wolves, but does that mean should dogs eat raw meat? Here is the truth and a holistic perspective on canine nutrition within the human dog relationship. I often hear the question: “If dogs have the same DNA as wolves, does that mean they should eat raw meat?” My first reaction to this question is simple: why do we keep searching for easy answers to complex topics?
Do Dogs and Wolves Really Have the Same Diet?
For a long time, I believed my abilities were limited. I used to say, “I am not a specialist, I cannot know everything.” But the truth is that we usually do not lack knowledge. We lack perspective—a holistic perspective.
Veterinary medicine, just like human medicine, often removes one essential part of the truth: the soul and emotion. When we exclude energy, relationships, and emotional context, everything becomes a symptom. And a symptom is not the whole picture. Dogs are not simply wolves. They have been part of human families for thousands of years. Yes, their DNA may be similar, but their lifestyle is not.
When we measure with love and precision, raw meat becomes part of a balanced system for our dogs.
Comparing the Lifestyle and Should Dogs Eat Raw Meat
A wolf travels long distances every day, hunts, and burns enormous amounts of energy. A dog, on the other hand, walks on a leash, sleeps on a couch, and eats from a bowl. Are those the same conditions? Of course they are not.
When a problem appears, whether it is coughing, diarrhea, or pulling on the leash, many owners immediately search for quick solutions. A new trainer, a new guidebook, a new technique. They try for a few days and then give up. But the goal is not to “fix the dog.”
The Dog as a Mirror in the Human Dog Relationship
Just as a child is not the problem of the mother, but a reflection of the family dynamic, a dog mirrors the inner world of its owner. If the dog is in imbalance, it often means that we are not in balance ourselves. This is why the question of should dogs eat raw meat goes far deeper than diet alone. It is not only about what the dog eats, but about the system in which the dog lives.
If the dog does not get enough movement, if it is exposed to stress, if the owner lives in chaos, no food will create a miracle. The real question is not whether raw meat is good or bad. The real question is whether the dog’s entire environment supports health, balance, and emotional stability.
What we are missing is not another recipe or another feeding method. We are missing the truth. The moment we honestly look within and admit that the dog is our reflection, everything changes. And that is where the answer hides. Not in copying the wolf, but in understanding the dog as a being that lives with us, in our world, as a vital part of the human dog relationship
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that precision in nutrition is a reflection of our care. When we measure with love, we feed the soul. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
Red tears in dogs often confuse owners and cause concern, but behind them lies a complex process within the human dog relationship. These stains are not just an aesthetic issue; they are a biological signal that something in the dog’s body is shifting due to stress or diet.
Physiological and emotional causes of red tears in dogs
„Red tears are a metabolic process,“ explains Sasha Riess. „You can see it in the tears, saliva, and sweat glands.“
A dog’s body temperature is naturally higher than a human’s, around 38°C. Because of this, the warm, moist areas of the face become an ideal environment for bacteria to flourish. These bacteria, reacting with porphyrins in the fluid, produce the characteristic reddish-brown color.
Red tears are therefore a triad of:
Bacterial imbalance
Disrupted pH levels
Emotional stress
How the human dog relationship impacts tear staining
Dogs are sentient beings that react deeply to the feelings of their owners. If you notice your dog withdrawing or showing restlessness alongside red tears, you may be looking at an emotional reaction. In the human dog relationship, dogs often act as emotional sponges.
Sasha Riess advises: „Check how attached the dog is to you and whether there is any other behavior that shows tension. Dogs are emotional animals and can respond to your own emotional processes.“
Pay attention to environmental shifts:
Has a family member left the household?
Has the daily routine changed significantly?
Is the dog experiencing separation anxiety?
Natural solutions for red tears in dogs
An imbalance in the microbiome often manifests through the eyes. If the pH level of the tears is off, bacteria grow more easily. To restore balance:
Adjust or change the dog’s food: Move toward more natural, less processed options.
Introduce probiotics: Support the gut-eye axis.
Maintain hygiene: Keep the area dry to discourage bacterial growth.
„First, resolve the physiological part. Change the food and add a probiotic,“ says Sasha. „And at the same time, reduce the dog’s exposure to stress.“
Restoring balance in your shared life with your dog
Chronic stress triggers higher levels of cortisol, which weakens the immune system and disrupts the microbiome. When the human dog relationship is strained or the environment is chaotic, bacteria grow faster.
Closeness and calm communication help a dog release stress and reduce the appearance of red tears.
How to Help Your Dog
Helping a dog with red tears involves a two-step approach of understanding and action. Addressing the issue gradually through diet, hygiene, and stress reduction is key. Consider keeping a small diary to track when the tears appear—after which meals or emotional events? This makes the root cause easier to identify.
Caring for both the emotional and physiological balance is the best way to prevent red tears. Dogs are mirrors of our emotions. If we learn to read their tears, we might learn something about ourselves as well.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that precision in nutrition is a reflection of our care. When we measure with love, we feed the soul. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
Parvovirus in dogs is a disease that is rarely discussed openly, even though it is extremely dangerous and can have fatal consequences. From personal experience and conversations with dog owners, I have learned that vaccination does not always mean complete protection. I want to share my understanding because I believe every dog owner should be aware of the full scope of prevention within the human dog relationship.
Vaccination and Parvovirus: Where the Problem Begins
“My dog was vaccinated three times and still died from parvovirus.”
At first glance, this sounds impossible. Yet, it is not an isolated case. I have heard similar stories from many owners, including my own students. One of the reasons is that viruses such as canine parvovirus and coronavirus can evolve over time, while vaccines are developed based on known strains.While vaccination significantly reduces risk, it is not an absolute guarantee. A dog may receive all required doses yet still become ill if multiple factors weaken the body’s ability to respond.
Why Vaccine Quality and Timing Matter
A vaccine may still be within its expiration date, but that does not always mean it reflects the most recent formulation. Veterinary vaccines are periodically updated to improve coverage. This is why, in a conscious human dog relationship, it is important for owners to ask veterinarians about the specific protocol and the „freshness“ of the strain coverage, rather than relying solely on a date in a passport.
The same principle applies to parasite prevention. Preparations suited to current conditions and used correctly provide much better overall protection.
The Role of the Immune System: Protection Beyond Vaccination
Even the most up-to-date vaccine cannot replace a strong immune system. Dogs with resilient immunity cope better with viral exposure. In practice, this means that a dog’s lifestyle is the true foundation of the human dog relationship:
Nutritionally balanced and appropriate diet.
Regular physical activity.
Minimal chronic stress.
Routine veterinary monitoring.
A dog living in a stable, healthy, and active environment develops a stronger physiological response. Such an organism is better equipped to recognize and respond to pathogens, even when external protection is not perfect.
A healthy lifestyle strengthens a dog’s natural immunity.
Why Vaccination Alone Is Not Enough
Modern veterinary care often places a strong emphasis on vaccination, which is essential and should never be dismissed. However, vaccination alone is not sufficient. Without a supportive immune system and attentive daily care, a dog remains vulnerable. True prevention is a combination of factors: vaccination, immune resilience, and quality of life must work together.
A Message to Dog Owners
Do not rely solely on the vaccination calendar. Speak openly with your veterinarian about protocols and your dog’s overall health. Invest daily in your dog’s wellbeing through nutrition, movement, and emotional stability. Only through this integrated approach can we offer dogs the life and protection they truly deserve within the human dog relationship.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that precision in nutrition is a reflection of our care. When we measure with love, we feed the soul. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
Raw bones can be extremely beneficial for dogs because they strengthen teeth, provide minerals, and satisfy the natural need for chewing. However, there is one important detail many owners overlook: raw bones that sit for too long become dangerous. In a healthy human dog relationship, understanding these subtle biological shifts is what keeps our companions safe.
Why Old Raw Bones Become Risky
If a bone remains for several days in the bowl, the yard, or even in the freezer, a sticky film begins to form on its surface. This is a sign of decomposing connective tissue and fat. At that moment, the dog no longer chews the bone slowly but may swallow it whole. This is when the greatest risk occurs.
The danger includes:
Choking or the bone getting stuck in the throat.
Potential injury to the esophagus.
Risk of sharp fragments becoming lodged in the intestines.
Therefore, an old raw bone is no longer safe for the human dog relationship to endure.
Which Bone Is the Safest?
The best choice will always be a completely fresh raw bone that is chilled or frozen, but not one that has been stored for weeks. When fresh, the dog can chew it normally, grind it slowly, and digest it without significant risk. Fresh bones provide high amounts of natural minerals that simply cannot be obtained from industrial dog food.
Old bones decompose and can cause choking or severe internal injuries.
What About Cooked Bones?
This is a rule every dog owner must know: Never give a dog cooked bones.
Cooked bones break into sharp, brittle fragments that can tear the intestines, cause severe constipation, and lead to internal damage and painful blockages. If you cook bones to make broth, gelatin, or nutritional additions to meals, that is an excellent choice—but only the liquid nutrients should be shared. The cooked bone itself should never be fed to a dog.
Raw bones are an excellent and completely natural source of minerals, but only when they are given fresh and in the proper form. In the human dog relationship, providing the right tools for health is an act of love.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that precision in nutrition is a reflection of our care. When we measure with love, we feed the soul. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess