by Sasha Riess | 21.05.26. | Behaviour
The human-dog relationship is often a mirror of our personal attitudes, fears, and cultural patterns. Differences in opinions, tastes, and values are not a problem in themselves; they become dangerous only when dogs suffer because of them.
Why People Disagree Even About Dogs
Differences in what we like are not random. When we choose a dog, we often do not choose a living being—we choose an image.
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One person dislikes black dogs.
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Another focuses on the fur.
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A third sees only beauty.
There is no right or wrong here, only difference. People look at life through different filters, and different opinions are not an attack. The problem begins when these differences justify poor treatment.
A Paradigm That Brings Results
There is a way of thinking and working with dogs that, when applied consistently, brings real results to the human-dog relationship:
If a method produces these results, why should it be dismissed just because it challenges the dominant belief that a dog is „problematic“?
The dog is the animal that suffers most because of humans.
Who Truly Suffers in the Human-Dog Relationship?
There is no animal beside which humans suffer more than a dog, but there is also no animal that suffers more because of humans. The dog is the only animal completely bound to human decisions, fears, and projections.
Because of this, the responsibility always lies with us.
Changing Our Perspective
Differences in opinion are not the issue. The issue is when a dog pays the price for our aesthetic criteria or our fears. If we change how we perceive them, we change their fate.
At Sasha Riess, we believe that the human-dog relationship should be based on understanding the dog’s true nature, not our own projections. Only then can we achieve pureloveandharmony. Learn how to look past the „image“ and see the soul: Linktree Sasha Riess
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by Sasha Riess | 29.01.26. | Emotions
For years she did everything right, but her dog’s bloody diarrhea stopped only when she stopped lying to herself.
In the previous column, the story of Marija and her dog was shared—a case of chronic diarrhea lasting for years that stopped only when she stopped living against herself. That story left an open question: was it coincidence, or a repeating pattern that appears when unspoken truth within a system is suppressed for too long?
This column continues where the previous one ended. It brings the story of Snežana and her dog Bobi, and of a decision that had been postponed for years.
When Protocols Are Not Enough for a Dog’s Health
Snežana was not a woman who ignored problems. On the contrary, she was one of those who try everything, follow guidelines, and seek knowledge. When Bobi developed bloody diarrhea, she reacted immediately with veterinarians, analyses, and therapies.
When medical solutions proved temporary, she turned to a different approach. She followed rituals, adjusted nutrition, and changed ingredients used in cooking. Alongside this, she regularly attended online workshops of the Harmony Order.
Yet, despite everything being technically done correctly, Bobi’s symptoms did not disappear. There were short periods of improvement, but the blood always returned. It was as if the cause was not in what the dog was eating, but in what he was living inside.
The Harmony Order and the Unspoken Truth in the Marriage
From the outside, Snežana’s marriage looked stable—life abroad and professional success. There was no visible chaos, only a relationship of long silence. She believed enduring was the same as love, refusing to admit she could no longer live that way.
In such conditions, a woman often loses contact with herself. But the body does not understand the concept of cost; it responds to reality. The dog, sharing the same emotional climate, responds even faster. A dog’s health and the owner’s truth are inseparably connected.
Through the Harmony Order workshops, Snežana realized that a dog cannot be stable in a space where the central figure lives in constant inner conflict.
A dog’s health and the owner’s truth are inseparably connected.
A Decision That Changed the Nervous System of the Whole System
At the final workshop, Snežana shared her realization. She understood she could no longer lie to herself; if she wanted to help her dog, she first had to help herself.
The decision to divorce was not impulsive; it was the end of long-term denial. When she finally made the decision, everything changed. After the divorce, Bobi’s bloody diarrhea stopped almost overnight. The food remained the same. No new protocol was introduced. Only the life dynamic changed. The chronic tension disappeared, and as the woman’s nervous system calmed, the dog’s nervous system followed.
What Does the Health of Our Pets Tell Us?
This story does not claim that every health problem is caused by human relationships. It speaks of something more subtle: that sometimes symptoms do not withdraw until what continually creates them is changed.
In the Harmony Order, everyone has their place. When a woman stands in her rightful place, the dog no longer needs to carry what is not his.
This is not a story about divorce. This is a story about honesty. It is about the moment self-deception ends. The dog recognizes it first—not through words, but through the body.
It was never about the chips. It was always about the truth.
