There is a sentence that is spoken more and more often today, almost without reflection: “It’s easier for me to have a dog than a child.” It is usually said as a rational decision, as a sign of maturity, planning, and responsibility. Yet behind it, there is often a much deeper fear—not of a child, but of a life that requires sacrifice. This is the hidden truth behind why we choose a dog and postpone having a child.
Sacrifice Today for an Uncertain Tomorrow
Modern humans have learned to measure every decision in advance: the cost, the duration, the gain, and the loss. This logic justifies everything from dog sterilization to the „easier solutions“ offered by the pet industry. We accept sacrifice today only if it promises comfort tomorrow.
The same logic applies to parenthood. The only difference is that a dog is perceived as a controlled responsibility, while a child is unpredictable.
The Dog as the “Safer” Choice
People rarely calculate the cost of a child when they truly want one. However, those who build tables, plans, and projections often find themselves giving up. They wait for the apartment, the car, or the „secure“ moment. Meanwhile, time passes.
A dog arrives with the illusion of simplicity. It seems to demand less and disrupt life less—at least at first. But when the dog enters a world where everything has a price—food, veterinarians, training—it can also become a financial burden instead of a being we committed ourselves to.
An Industry That Lives on Fear
An entire industry has been built around dogs, using human fear of mistakes and guilt. Every fear has a paid solution. While an owner believes they are doing their best, they are often running away from the essence: personal responsibility. To understand why we choose a dog and postpone having a child, we must realize that a dog did not come into our life to be an easier version of a child. It came to confront us with our limits and our ability to care without calculation.
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Calculating costs often becomes an excuse for postponing life.
When Postponement Becomes a Way of Life
The problem is not choosing a dog; the problem is when the dog becomes an excuse to postpone life. Neither a dog nor a child comes as a project to be perfectly planned—they are responsibilities to be lived.
The sentence “It’s easier for me to have a dog than a child” says nothing about dogs. It speaks about our relationship with risk, sacrifice, and uncertainty. We wait for „right conditions“ while life simply passes by.
At Sasha Riess, we believe that life is not a project to be managed, but a journey of growth. Understanding why we choose a dog and postpone having a child allows us to face our fears and embrace responsibility with an open heart. This path leads to a life of authenticity and pureloveandharmony. Discover more: Linktree Sasha Riess
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