People often ask me how deeply dogs are connected to us. My experience shows that a telepathic connection with a dog is possible, and that our pets can sense much more than we can imagine.
Communication and Telepathic Bond with a Dog
One day, we were away from home for eight hours. Our dog didn’t urinate but did relieve himself on the mat. When we returned, he was peacefully sleeping in his playpen. That’s when I realized, I can’t blame him when he occasionally pees on the bed, because there’s always a reason behind it. I learned that when we know we’ll be gone for a long time or have guests over, it’s best to simply place a chair on the bed to block his access.
Telepathic Connection with a Dog and How to Recognize It
Once, we went out for a longer time, first to take a friend to the airport, then to the beach. Only later did I remember that I had forgotten to put the chair on the bed. At that moment, I decided to try something different, to communicate with my dog telepathically.
I told him silently in my mind that everything was fine, that our friend had left, and that there was no reason to worry. I didn’t feel fear or tension, only calm and trust. Interestingly, I was also aware that my only phone charger was still on the bed, and my dog had a habit of chewing cables when he was a puppy.
The Result of the Telepathic Experiment
I spoke to him in my thoughts: “Please, don’t touch the charger, and there’s no need to jump on the bed.” When we returned home four hours later, we were greeted by an incredible sight: the bed was untouched, the charger was exactly where I had left it, and the dog was peacefully sleeping in his bed.
A dog in its own bed feels the trust and security of the owner.
From that day on, he never touched the charger again, nor did he jump on the bed to seek attention.
The Telepathic Bond – A Message for Dog Owners
This experience taught me that dogs don’t react only to commands, tone of voice, or gestures; they feel our energy and thoughts. When I communicated with my dog from a place of calm and trust, he understood me and responded accordingly.
For me, this was proof that a telepathic connection with a dog truly exists, and that it runs far deeper than most people believe. This is a vital part of the human dog relationship within the Order of Harmony.
A dog in its own bed feels the trust and security of the owner.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that silence is the most powerful language. When we align our thoughts with our heart, our dogs finally hear us. Explore the depth of connection: Linktree Sasha Riess
The connection between a dog and a person’s childhood trauma runs deeper than most people think. A dog often becomes a silent witness to our pain, a guardian of memories, and a reflection of what we lived through as children. Their love is not only comforting. It is a mirror through which we can recognize and understand our own vulnerability.
How a Dog Reflects the Childhood Trauma of Its Owner
“What are you talking about? Of course a dog needs to be trained. Especially if it lives in an apartment and is a large breed. Just like children go to school.”
This is not the first time I have heard this comment. I receive it every time I say that dogs should not be trained. And each time it hurts, not because it is offensive, but because it is an authentic expression of pain. Our collective pain. The way we ourselves were trained. And the way we continue to train others because we believe that is what love looks like.
Love as a Justification for Abuse
Sometimes the only way to survive abuse, whether emotional, physical, or psychological, is to fall in love with our abusers. To justify their actions. To believe it is for our own good. And if we live long enough inside that belief, one day we will start to take pride in being “well raised.” Then we will begin doing the same to our dogs or even our children, because it is the only way we ever learned to love, the only way we were ever loved.
Research: How Owner Behavior Influences Canine Physiology
A year ago we started a study titled “The Influence of Changes in Owner Behavior on the Physiology of Their Dogs.” The goal was to determine whether changes in owner behavior could create long term biochemical changes in dogs. Instead of focusing only on behavior, we analyzed physiology using HTMA hair analysis, a method that measures mineral and toxic metal accumulation in the hair, revealing metabolic patterns during the period in which the hair grew.
The Mineral Shell: A Physical Indicator of Chronic Stress in Dogs
The results were striking, though not unexpected. Dogs living in environments with chronically elevated stress in their owners, and whose owners were unable to change their life circumstances, showed specific patterns of biochemical adaptation. One of the most notable findings was the “mineral shell” phenomenon, where certain minerals, most often calcium, and toxic metals accumulate excessively in tissues. This indicates suppressed adrenal function, long lasting stress, and a metabolic withdrawal from the environment. The body literally shuts down, creating a physiological shield against surroundings it perceives as unbearable.
In the silence between human and dog, often lies what words cannot say.
Behavior as a Reflection of the Owner’s Inner State
In the behavior of these dogs, patterns of hyperactivity, compulsive barking, leash pulling, and signs of inhibition were observed. Emotional withdrawal, loss of interest, and profound fatigue were common. Neurochemically, their bodies operate in chronic survival mode: reduced regeneration, increased reactivity, and blocked adaptive functions.
Change Through the Owner’s Stability: Results of the Harmony Manual
In contrast, dogs whose owners applied principles from the Harmony Manual program showed entirely different patterns. In a more stable and predictable environment, these dogs demonstrated increased magnesium and potassium levels, essential for balancing the autonomic nervous system and supporting regeneration. Sodium levels decreased, indicating reduced systemic stress.
In the Silence Between Humans and Dogs, Much Is Said Without Words
The most important point is that the change did not come from external correction of behavior, but from internal reorganization. These dogs were not trained to stop barking or to obey commands. Through the emotional stability and safety created by their owners, they spontaneously began behaving differently. Their nervous systems left survival mode and activated the functions of exploration, learning, and rest.
Trauma Versus Learning: Why Force Cannot Change the Core
The only way to influence someone’s behavior from the outside is through trauma. External pressure, coercion, or intimidation does not change inner motivation. It only adjusts behavior to avoid pain or punishment. Such change is not the result of free will but a survival mechanism, a physiological adaptation to a threatening environment. Its effects remain deeply recorded in the nervous system and can lead to long term damage.
Learning as an Expression of Freedom: When a Dog Learns From Safety
Learning is the expression of free will. It requires safety, internal stability, and a physiological state capable of exploring and engaging with the world. Only then can the body develop the functions needed for active participation in life. True learning allows spontaneous regulation of behavior, integration of new experiences, and adaptation without harming the integrity of the body.
Pavlov, Watson, and the History of Conditioning
Many modern dog behaviorists still refer to Pavlov’s experiment as the basis for so called “positive conditioning.” Yet Pavlov himself emphasized that his method does not teach learning but reflex. Withholding food when a dog does not perform what is expected is a form of controlled deprivation. It is a manipulation that resembles emotional blackmail. It is trauma of low intensity, but chronic in nature. Training is trauma.
Watson on Learning: The Difference Between Conditioning and Real Development
Watson’s experiment with Little Albert reminds us that conditioning is not learning. The child, conditioned to fear all white and soft objects, later showed neurological problems and died at the age of nine. Many scientists linked the trauma of the experiment to the deterioration of his condition. Today, with knowledge from neuroplasticity, neuroscience, affective attachment theory, and the influence of environment on physiology, it is clear that the consequences of such conditioning align with the modern understanding of trauma.
When a dog releases tension, we learn how to live without fear.
Reexamining the Relationship: Are We Training or Traumatizing
As far back as 1907, Watson wrote in his dissertation “The Education of Animals” about the difference between conditioning and learning. Conditioning produces a mechanical response to external stimuli. Real learning involves the creation of new neural pathways in the cerebral cortex. It changes the gray structures of the brain and the physiology that underlies behavior. These changes occur only through free will, inner motivation, and safety. Inspired learning builds a physiological foundation for growth, understanding, and emotional connection. Forced learning creates only reflex, never development.
When a dog releases tension, we learn how to live without fear.
Reconsidering Our Relationship With Dogs
So I ask: are we doing the same to our dogs? We train them to sit, to stay quiet, to stop barking, to stop pulling, to stop existing. And when they stop “misbehaving,” when they become calm and obedient, we celebrate our success. But what we are celebrating is a frozen trauma. Chronic stress. Psychophysiological collapse that, just like in Little Albert, may not be visible immediately but will one day demand a price.
Pure Love and Harmony: A Call for True Change
Pure Love and Harmony is not a method. It is an invitation to reflect. To create an environment where a dog can breathe next to us, explore, feel, and develop.
Life Beyond Survival Mode: Returning to Warmth and Peace
As long as we replace love with control and obedience with fear, we will never know how light and peaceful life can be when it is not lived in survival mode. For us. And for them.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that healing the bond means healing ourselves. When we step out of the cycle of training and into the space of connection, we find true harmony. Learn more about our research and philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
Supporting dogs through nutrition is not just a technical task. It is one of the most important ways we show love to our dogs. Food is at the heart of our relationship, and it is essential to understand how deeply our nutritional choices influence their health, energy, and emotional stability.
Why Nutritional Support Is Essential for a Dog’s Health
When we understand that nutritional support directly affects immunity, behavior, and resilience to stress, we begin to see that food is not a small detail. It is the foundation of their stability. Proper nutrition is the first step toward reducing stress in dogs.
Let Us Support Our Dogs Through Food
Food is not just fuel for the dog’s body; it is the strongest bridge between us and them. Through food, we express care, nurture, and show the dog that it belongs. This is where the most important part of the human dog relationship begins: support.
Today, many owners live in fear of making a mistake. They struggle with choosing food and worry they might harm their dog. This is normal. But every day you can make a step toward giving your dog what strengthens it from the inside out.
From „Dead Food“ to Vitality
The transition away from dead food—food without life, energy, or real nutritional value—is a return to vitality. It is a path through which we stop creating tired, depleted zombies who struggle to cope with the world we placed them in.
Dogs live our choices and carry the weight of our modern environment:
Dogs live our choices and carry the weight of our modern environment.
How Nutritional Support Reflects Our Care
If we want to truly be their safety, we must show care through the one thing they depend on most: food. In nutrition, we can give them what no one else can—support that nourishes, heals, strengthens, and restores their spark of life.
Because food is love. And love is responsibility. This is the core of pureloveandharmony.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we teach that a dog’s bowl is the start of their emotional health. When we feed the body correctly, we protect the soul. Join the movement: Linktree Sasha Riess
A dog and a human are neither a pack nor a family; they create a unique bond built on trust, love, and mutual growth.
The Dog and the Human Are Not a Pack
When we speak of a pack, we think of a family with clear biological connections: mother, father, offspring. In that sense, a dog and a human can never form a pack. What arises between them is something different, unique, and difficult to explain through natural laws.
A Bond That Transcends Hierarchy
What exists between a dog and a human goes beyond the rules of hierarchy and survival. It is not a relationship of dominance but a space where trust, love, and belonging create community. The dog sees safety and support in the human, while the human sees in the dog the reflection of his own soul.
A New Community: Beyond Boundaries
A dog and a human together do not form a pack. They create a new, unique community where boundaries disappear. It is a space in which both are shaped, grow, and learn through each other. Every interaction with a dog reminds us of the importance of honesty, patience, and love that has no form, no rules, and no end. This is the essence of the human dog relationship in its purest form.
Trust is the foundation of the human dog relationship.
The Lesson a Dog Brings
This bond teaches us that love is not limited by natural laws. A dog and a human build a relationship that is unbreakable and unique. There is no hierarchy, no structure, only trust and shared growth. Through this connection, we learn that true love is free and infinite. This understanding is what defines pureloveandharmony.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that when we stop trying to „lead“ and start trying to „connect,“ we finally find the harmony we’ve been seeking. Discover the Third Wave: Linktree Sasha Riess
Teeth cleaning in dogs is a far more complex issue than it seems at first glance. Everything depends on why the dog has dental problems. In most cases, the issue is dental plaque, but it’s important to understand that bacteria in this process are a secondary occurrence.
Understanding the Cause, Not Just the Symptom
Dental plaque itself is a normal phenomenon. The problem begins when calcification and mineralization of the plaque occur, a process that would not happen if the thyroid gland were functioning properly.
When that function weakens, minerals begin to “wander” through the system, depositing themselves and creating the foundation for tartar buildup. That’s why teeth cleaning in dogs is often only a symptomatic solution. Ultrasound treatments and toothpastes can help temporarily, but the problem returns quickly because the underlying cause remains unresolved.
How Tartar Forms: The Mineral Process
The process begins with calcification and mineralization of plaque. The first colony of bacteria adheres to these minerals, followed by an entire microbiological community attaching itself to the surface. The result is:
Unpleasant odor
Tissue decay
Formation of a solid tartar layer
The only real solution is to prevent excess mineral accumulation, which depends on maintaining healthy thyroid function within the human dog relationship.
The Connection Between Stress and Tartar
The thyroid gland is directly connected to the adrenal glands and to the levels of adrenaline and cortisol in the blood. When a dog is anxious and lives under constant stress, adrenal activity increases while the thyroid weakens. This leads to an overall imbalance, including dental problems.
Peace and a stable relationship reduce the risk of dental problems
Chronic stress can even cause the formation of small nodules on the parathyroid glands. That’s why resolving teeth cleaning in dogs is directly related to communication and a sense of safety within the home.
The Real Solution: Peace and Balance
A dog that lives in peace, with a stable relationship and clear boundaries, has a much lower chance of developing chronic dental issues. The true answer doesn’t lie in ultrasonic cleaning but in understanding the cause—from hormones to the dog’s emotional state.
The teeth are a mirror of a dog’s inner balance, just as our smile reflects our own health and peace.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we look beyond the surface. A healthy smile starts with a balanced soul and a stable thyroid. Explore our philosophy of harmony: Linktree Sasha Riess
Spaying and neutering dogs were considered for decades a routine and almost mandatory practice of responsible ownership. However, modern veterinary science and new research are now questioning this approach, pointing to serious long-term health consequences for dogs and cats.
How the Professional View on Spaying and Neutering Has Changed
For many years, it was believed that the ideal time to neuter a dog was around the second year of life, after growth and development were completed. Yet, long-term experience in working with dogs, monitoring behavior and health issues, and reviewing scientific studies have shown that routine spaying and neutering dogs is not a universal solution.
Today, there is a growing emphasis that these procedures should be viewed exclusively as a therapeutic model, not as a preventive measure applied without individual assessment.
WSAVA Changes Recommendations: Spaying Only When There Is a Medical Reason
The World Small Animal Veterinary Association (WSAVA) has officially changed its recommendations regarding spaying and neutering dogs. In an executive summary published in 2024, it states that due to increasing evidence of harmful health effects of traditional gonadectomy, responsible owners are encouraged to leave dogs and cats intact unless there is a clear medical reason.
Special attention is drawn to the increased risk of:
Malignant diseases
Joint and skeletal disorders
Hormonal imbalance
Metabolic problems
WSAVA emphasizes that spaying and neutering dogs younger than six months is not recommended, as it significantly increases the risk of long-term health consequences within the human dog relationship.
When Spaying and Neutering Dogs Is Justified
According to modern guidelines, these procedures have justification:
In cases of malignant diseases of the reproductive system.
When there is a clear therapeutic reason.
In special circumstances such as shelters, with the use of alternative methods that carry lower health risks.
WSAVA changes its position on routine gonadectomy.
WSAVA also points out that although population control is important, it is not clear whether mass low-cost sterilization programs have truly reduced the number of abandoned animals, nor whether TNR programs bring long-term results.
Responsible Ownership Means an Individual Decision
Spaying and neutering dogs are not a question of morality but of medicine. A modern approach requires individual assessment of each dog, its health, environment, and real risks. Routine decisions without analysis are no longer in line with current science.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we advocate for decisions based on biology and individual needs. Respecting the dog’s hormonal integrity is a key part of the Order of Harmony. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
In the modern world of dog care, we increasingly see how good intentions can easily slide in the wrong direction. We have more information and products than ever, yet we are exposed to a greater risk of viewing dogs through a human lens. One question that appears every winter is whether dressing dogs in jackets or boots is a necessity or another example of anthropomorphism.
Thermoregulation: How Dogs Actually Experience Cold
To speak about this responsibly, we must distinguish between appropriate support and human projection. Dogs have a fundamentally different thermoregulation system. While humans rely on sweat glands, dogs regulate temperature primarily through breathing, panting, and the complex interaction of skin and coat.
All dogs have an undercoat, a natural thermal insulation system. Fur is not a passive “coat”; it creates an air layer that protects the dog from both cold and overheating. When dressing dogs without understanding this, we risk disrupting the very system that naturally protects them.
Adaptability: The Dog as a Being of Inner Resources
The dog is one of the most adaptable animals. Its strength lies in using its own inner resources to adjust to the present moment. A dog uses neuroplasticity to optimize functioning in a specific environment. A human often says, “I am cold, so my dog must be cold,” but the dog does not interpret clothing as love. It experiences it through restricted movement, trapped moisture, or overheating.
Paws are a highly specialized structure, not bare feet.
Why Paws and Boots Are a Special Challenge
A particularly important aspect of the human dog relationship involves the paw pads. They are not “bare feet” but highly specialized anatomical structures that participate in thermoregulation, stability, and body awareness.
Pads are programmed to adapt to terrain. When we interrupt this process with boots or excessive creams, we change the biomechanical model of movement. This can influence joint alignment and weight distribution, creating patterns that resemble hip dysplasia or heel-related problems.
When Is Support for Dogs Justified?
This does not mean that dressing dogs is never justified. There are specific situations where protection is a choice based on knowledge, not subjective feeling:
Older dogs with reduced mobility.
Dogs with chronic illness.
Dogs with compromised or diseased coats.
Life with a Dog Is a Relationship, Not Fashion
Before deciding on clothing, it is essential to understand canine physiology and the nervous system. Many products exist because they are commercially profitable, not because they are necessary.
Life with a dog is not a matter of fashion, but of relationship and respect for natural adaptability. When we step away from anthropomorphism, we open space for genuine care and harmonious living within the human dog relationship.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we prioritize the dog’s natural biological functions over human trends. Respecting the coat and the paws is the first step toward true harmony. Explore our approach: Linktree Sasha Riess
You can safely introduce broccoli to dogs who already eat cooked food. Adding vegetables such as broccoli supports dogs nutritionally by promoting the development of natural probiotics in the gut, strengthening the immune system, and helping maintain emotional balance.
Broccoli as a Healthy, Natural Addition to Cooked Meals for Dogs
Broccoli contains sulforaphane, a powerful antioxidant known for its protective effects, including potential prevention of certain types of cancer. When adding broccoli to the human dog relationship and their daily nutrition, it is important to chop it into very small pieces, around two millimeters, so dogs can digest it easily and fully absorb its benefits.
Dogs can enjoy broccoli when it is properly prepared and finely chopped.
Broccoli as a Nutritious and Safe Snack for Dogs
Dogs can enjoy broccoli when it is properly prepared and finely chopped. This simple addition to their bowl is more than just food; it is a way to support their biological rhythm and long-term health.
Preparation and Resting Time for Optimal Nutrition
To maximize the amount of beneficial sulforaphane, finely chopped broccoli should be left to rest for about ninety minutes before being added to the meal. This ensures your dog receives an optimal nutritional boost, whether they eat kibble or cooked food. By respecting these small details in preparation, we respect the dog’s physiology and their right to a vibrant life.
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that true care starts with the smallest ingredients. When we nourish the body correctly, we create space for harmony. Explore more: Linktree Sasha Riess
Dogs teach us that pain is not the end but a doorway into a deeper relationship with ourselves, with others, and with life. They show us how suffering as a path and pain shape our lives and our bond with a dog. We try to escape suffering as if it were the enemy, but once we acknowledge it, it transforms into a path that leads us back to love.
Dogs know this better than we do. Their eyes hold no judgment, even when it hurts.
Pain and Suffering: How They Shape the Dog and Our Relationship
Today I want to explore a word that makes most people uncomfortable: suffering. We would prefer to avoid it, hide it, push it away somewhere we cannot see it, as if that would neutralize it. But the truth is different. Suffering finds us even when we do not look for it. It sits beside us, enters our relationships, our bodies, our breath. And the more we push it away, the more tightly it holds us.
Maybe it is time to turn our gaze around. Maybe suffering as a path is not the enemy, but a road we walk not because we want to, but because it is part of life.
How Suffering Shapes the Dog Within the Order of Harmony
In the Order of Harmony, suffering has its rightful place. It is not random, not a punishment, not an unfortunate accident that “just happened.” Suffering appears when life demands that something within us stops and looks. When we run from it, it becomes louder. When we agree to face it, it begins to change.
The Dog as a Mirror: How Suffering Shapes Both Dog and Human
A dog in the home is often the first to show that suffering has entered the space between people. He does not speak our language, but he reveals it through his body and behavior. The dog does not “invent” a problem. He announces the pain that already exists. Suffering then stops being individual. It becomes relational.
Acceptance as the Beginning of Change
We often believe that we can overcome suffering through strength of will. That we can push through, endure, hold ourselves together. But will alone does not bring peace. Will becomes tired, breaks, burns out. Suffering as a path does not melt through force, but through acceptance. Acceptance does not mean approval or passivity. It means saying: “Yes, you are here. I acknowledge you.”
Once we acknowledge suffering, it no longer hides, and therefore no longer controls us from the shadows.
A dog does not invent the problem—he announces it for all of us.
How Suffering Shapes the Dog Through Family Life
In the Pure Love and Harmony philosophy, suffering is not the end of the road but a doorway. A doorway we step through to reach the inner space where love is no longer tied to expectations, but to its true essence. Through pain, love often becomes pure. A dog, who walks alongside a human through suffering, demands no justification. He simply is. And in his simple presence lies the lesson: love does not end because pain exists. On the contrary, through pain love becomes true.
Suffering Shapes the Dog Long Before We Notice It
Many people ask: “Why do dogs suffer? They do not deserve pain.” The truth is that a dog is not just an individual. He is part of a relationship, part of a family. He carries what others cannot. His suffering often becomes a mirror of our own. He reveals what we hide. When we acknowledge our own pain and the dog’s pain, suffering as a path becomes a way of connection. Not something that separates us, but something that brings us closer.
Acceptance as the Beginning of Transformation
Suffering as a path is not easy. It teaches silence. It teaches us to go beneath words and explanations, to release the need to fix everything, and simply be present. Life is not only joy and ascents, but also falls, emptiness, and extremes. In that school, the dog is the teacher. His gaze contains no judgment. When he suffers, he does not ask “Why me?” He simply walks through it.
The Third Wave: Suffering Shapes the Dog and Cannot Be Overcome by Will
In the Order of Harmony, suffering has its place. No longer hidden, no longer exiled. When we say “yes” to suffering, we open the door to peace. Because beyond pain comes silence. And in that silence, we discover that we are not alone.
This is where the Third Wave of Dog Evolution gains its full meaning. In the first wave, we viewed dogs as heroes who protect us. In the second wave, we turned them into images of our desires. In the third wave, they become our companions in harmony, in joy and in suffering. They teach us that love is not always easy, but through pain it can become authentic.
In silence, a dog reveals what we often cannot admit to ourselves.
Suffering as a Path to Harmony in Life
Suffering is not the end, but a path. A path that leads us through darkness so we can find the light. A path that teaches us that love and pain are not opposites, but two sides of the same life. Suffering can make us bitter, but once we accept it, it can make us gentle. And gentleness, in a world that constantly demands strength, may be the greatest courage of all.
By acknowledging everything that exists, both joy and pain, we create space for true harmony. And then the dog is no longer just a dog. He becomes a guide, a reminder that we are already on our path, and that only one thing remains: to say “yes to life.”
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that accepting every part of the journey is the only way to reach true balance. When we acknowledge the pain, we find the harmony. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
I once believed that rescuing dogs was the purest act of love. I watched people who fed dozens of dogs, slept among them, gave up everything for them — and I thought: this is devotion, this is goodness. But over time, after observing, listening, and questioning myself, I began to wonder: Who is really saving whom? Within the human dog relationship, is taking in one more dog into an overcrowded yard truly love — or is it my own cry for something I never received? Is it an attempt to prove my worth in a world that often failed to see me?
The Order of Love and Harmony in Rescue
I came to understand that love isn’t just emotion or impulse — it has order. Among humans it’s called The Order of Love. With dogs, it becomes The Order of Harmony. These cosmic laws never punish — they simply restore balance. Every time we cross a boundary, something is taken in return. When love exceeds its natural limits, it becomes obsession, control, compensation — disease. And I too was part of that system, believing I was doing good, unaware that every excess in rescuing dogs can consume both the rescuer and the rescued.
The Trap of the Donation System
Like many involved in rescue, I’ve seen how survival often depends on donations — heartbreaking photos, videos of wounded dogs, public calls for help. It becomes a kind of currency — the currency of survival. But this system quickly turns into a vicious circle. There’s never enough — not for the dogs already there, nor for the new mouths arriving each day. Food becomes the cheapest kibble, often expired, or cans made from scraps — what couldn’t be sold becomes “charity.” Dogs in such systems don’t live — they merely survive, stripped of dignity.
Behind every rescue post lies a daily struggle for food, health, and the survival of the dogs.
What a Dog Really Needs to Be Happy
A dog needs more than food and water. His well-being depends on safety, structure, social interaction, and love — not sentimental love, but practical, daily presence. But how can one person provide that for thirty, forty, or fifty dogs? In such conditions, a dog stops being a being. He becomes a number, a function, a projection. Unconsciously, he turns into a symbol of what we lack. When the number of dogs surpasses the depth of connection, love disappears — chaos remains.
The Message Behind Every Dog
Still, I believe each dog arrives for a reason. Even in the midst of chaos, each one carries a message — a fragment of the caretaker’s unspoken story. Over the years, I’ve met people rescuing dogs with genuine hearts and noble intentions. I once shared that belief completely. But now I see that behind every “one more dog” there is often something deeper — something not about the dogs, but about us.
The Glorification of Rescue and Its Burden
What struck me most is how society glorifies this kind of sacrifice. On social media, rescuing dogs earns applause, likes, and admiration. Young people, inspired by the idea of selfless devotion, enter this world without the tools to withstand it. I’ve watched them lose their health, their identity — sometimes even their lives. At first glance, they are heroes — people who give up peace, money, and relationships for dogs. And I wanted to be one of them. But through the Order of Harmony, I’ve learned that behind every excess lies a deficit. Behind every dog, there is often a person who has lost a piece of themselves.
The Dog as a Reflection of Our Emptiness
The principle of respect teaches us that every being has its own purpose and essence. A dog is a creature with dignity — needing space, rhythm, and clarity. When I unconsciously turn him into a symbol of my emptiness, I stop seeing him as a dog. He becomes a mirror of my need. And the dog, in his unconditional love, often accepts that role — even to his own detriment. I’ve seen people surrounded by dogs while their bodies collapse, their relationships fade, their lives revolve only around rescue. I’ve been close to that edge myself, until I stopped and asked: What am I really doing?
A dog often becomes a mirror of our internal wounds and the silences we carry within ourselves.
Who Are We Really Saving — Them or Ourselves?
Through conversations, silence, and self-reflection, I began to see: Dogs often become substitutes for something else — for love I never received, for grief I never mourned, for a part of myself I never accepted. Each dog can unconsciously become a symbol of something lost that I’m trying to reclaim. But the system always seeks balance — not as punishment, but as consequence. So I started asking myself: Whom am I really saving? What am I trying to find through one more rescue?
The Dog as a Call — Not an Answer
I realized that a dog is not the answer. A dog is a call — a call to return to order, to be present, clear, and consistent. A call to recognize the line between genuine love and the unconscious need to patch my own unrest. Only when I see the dog as a dog — not as a projection of my wounds — can I truly love him. Only then can I honor his dignity, his needs, his life.
Stopping Out of Respect
Before taking in another dog, I now pause — not out of fear, but out of respect. Maybe that dog didn’t come to stay. Maybe he came to show me what in me still needs to be seen. And perhaps, when I learn to say “enough,” I’ll finally find what I was searching for all along — peace with myself, my own wholeness. So before I rescue another dog, I ask: Am I ready to rescue myself first?
At Integrative and Holistic Grooming Education, we believe that precision in our actions is a reflection of our internal balance. When we lead with harmony, we heal the soul. Explore our philosophy: Linktree Sasha Riess
